Once upon a time,
voices can be heard, but as we grew up,
darkness consume us, leaving us speechless.
voices can be heard, but as we grew up,
darkness consume us, leaving us speechless.
Hi Aliens o╮(｡❛ᴗ❛｡)╭o
Welcome back to another post on Human Communication :D
so in today class
we learnt about..
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LISTENING
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What is Listening ?
It is how speech whom are sound are transmitted through gases, plasma, and liquids as longitudinal waves, also called compression waves and as the wave enter your outer ear and travel through a narrow passageway called the ear canal, which leads to your eardrum....
nah just Joking ┐(￣ヮ￣)┌
Ok, serious tho,
What is listening?
Listening is how we receive the information from a person or people,
and from that, we interpret it, understand it,
and since its "locked" in our mind ,
we're able to evaluate with ease and respond it to the other party :D
simply to say,
the process of receiving, constructing a define of it and respond to the party.
this is also called,
The Listening Process
Stages of Listening.
#1 Receiving = can be verbally or non verbal; receiving the speaker thought or idea.
#2 Understanding = Decode the messages for its meaning
#3 Remembering = Retaining the msgs receiver and using it for the next stage.
#4 Evaluating = Distinguish the msgs and reason the meaning of the msgs
#5 Responding = 2 meaning of responding: (1) Backchannaling Cues, meaning as respond while speaker is talking. (2) the end of the speaker msgs and you answering back to that msgs.
One must understand the difference between hearing and listening.
Hearing is involuntary and effortless to decode a speaker's msgs.
while listening give voluntary, understanding of the speaker's msgs.
As usual,
I'll show the chapter's subtopic before getting to it
The subtopic are..
relatively few this time ＼(*T▽T*)／
#Stages/process of Listening (the above)
#Listening & culture
#Listening Effectively
Listening is hard.
Why ? What so hard about listening to msgs, decode it and respond back ?
What do hard about listening ?
between two person is easy,
but what happen if both party came from a totally different background, races, religion and belief, experience, etc ?
THEY CRASHES (worst pun intended)
there are diversity of cultural and listening,
and what Mr Anwari taught are..
>Language and speech
>Non-verval behavioral differences
>Direct and indirect styles
>Balance of story versus evidence
>Credibility
>Feedback
Language and Speech
►Every speaker speaks an idiolect.
A unique variation of the language.
►Speakers and listeners who have different native languages & who may have learned English as a second language have differences in meaning.
Non-verbal behavioural differences
►Different people from different cultural will have they unique gesture.
►This might contradict and thus creating noise in the process in listening.
Direct and indirect styles
►Direct style: I want to hit you with a brick
►Indirect Style: One wishes to acquaint your facial features with a fundamental item used in building walls. Repeatedly.
Balance of story versus evidence
In some cultures(e.g. United states) most people want evidence before making decisions rather than critical thinking.
But for some other cultures, they may be more influenced by the word of high credibility source.
Credibility
What make a speaker credible or believable will vary from one culture to another.
Feedback
how we respond back to the speaker's msgs.
In Europe, they tend to be direct and honest feedback
while in Asia, they prefer to be positive and truthful with their feedback regardless of their emotion in the feedback.
the four most ideal ways on listening effectively are:
#1 Participatory and passive listening
#2 Empathic & objective listening
#3 Nonjudgmental & critical listening
#4 Surface & depth listening
#1 Participatory and passive listening
Participate both mentally and physically when someone is encoding the msgs.
Just by listening, no interruption or noises, it show how we really concentrated in the speaker's msgs
#2 Empathic & objective listening
Adding our feeling onto the speaker's msgs,
we understand it and empathy the msgs
Emphatic listening is a way to increases the bond of two people as understanding and meaning are joint in the conversation of understand both party.
There are times when you need to measure the meanings and feelings against some objective reality
#3 Nonjudgmental & critical listening
Being opened minded and understanding will not only stop you from being bias on the msgs,
but also effectively help you understand the msgs better.
only after remembering the msgs,
then only critically think and judge the msgs
#4 Surface & depth listening
Don't just understand the surface of the msgs,
but also understand the depth of it
Examples,
GF: do you think should I exercise or go on a diet?
BF: (critically understand what does GF's msgs meant, "does she ask just for opinion or does she want to know what i think of her?" and understand that the answer the given might end his life)
My favourite..
FINISHED ANOTHER CHAPTER ~!!!!
It is how speech whom are sound are transmitted through gases, plasma, and liquids as longitudinal waves, also called compression waves and as the wave enter your outer ear and travel through a narrow passageway called the ear canal, which leads to your eardrum....
nah just Joking ┐(￣ヮ￣)┌
Ok, serious tho,
What is listening?
Listening is how we receive the information from a person or people,
and from that, we interpret it, understand it,
and since its "locked" in our mind ,
we're able to evaluate with ease and respond it to the other party :D
simply to say,
the process of receiving, constructing a define of it and respond to the party.
this is also called,
The Listening Process
Stages of Listening.
#1 Receiving = can be verbally or non verbal; receiving the speaker thought or idea.
#2 Understanding = Decode the messages for its meaning
#3 Remembering = Retaining the msgs receiver and using it for the next stage.
#4 Evaluating = Distinguish the msgs and reason the meaning of the msgs
#5 Responding = 2 meaning of responding: (1) Backchannaling Cues, meaning as respond while speaker is talking. (2) the end of the speaker msgs and you answering back to that msgs.
One must understand the difference between hearing and listening.
Hearing is involuntary and effortless to decode a speaker's msgs.
while listening give voluntary, understanding of the speaker's msgs.
As usual,
I'll show the chapter's subtopic before getting to it
The subtopic are..
relatively few this time ＼(*T▽T*)／
#Stages/process of Listening (the above)
#Listening & culture
#Listening Effectively
Listening & Culture
(why always culture one arh ?)
Listening is hard.
Why ? What so hard about listening to msgs, decode it and respond back ?
What do hard about listening ?
between two person is easy,
but what happen if both party came from a totally different background, races, religion and belief, experience, etc ?
THEY CRASHES (worst pun intended)
there are diversity of cultural and listening,
and what Mr Anwari taught are..
>Language and speech
>Non-verval behavioral differences
>Direct and indirect styles
>Balance of story versus evidence
>Credibility
>Feedback
►Every speaker speaks an idiolect.
A unique variation of the language.
►Speakers and listeners who have different native languages & who may have learned English as a second language have differences in meaning.
►Examples, a fluent english speaker will understand the saying "elephant in the room" which meant a problem that is obvious to everyone but deliberately ignored as it might cause chaos or taboo.
While a beginner in english might involuntary direct the meaning of the sentence and asked themselves "how would an elephant fit into a room ?"
Non-verbal behavioural differences
►Different people from different cultural will have they unique gesture.
►This might contradict and thus creating noise in the process in listening.
Direct and indirect styles
►Direct style: I want to hit you with a brick
►Indirect Style: One wishes to acquaint your facial features with a fundamental item used in building walls. Repeatedly.
Balance of story versus evidence
In some cultures(e.g. United states) most people want evidence before making decisions rather than critical thinking.
But for some other cultures, they may be more influenced by the word of high credibility source.
Examples, In US, before a corporate choose which product to invest money for production, they tend to see the product"s specification.
Credibility
What make a speaker credible or believable will vary from one culture to another.
Feedback
how we respond back to the speaker's msgs.
In Europe, they tend to be direct and honest feedback
while in Asia, they prefer to be positive and truthful with their feedback regardless of their emotion in the feedback.
Listening Effectively
the four most ideal ways on listening effectively are:
#1 Participatory and passive listening
#2 Empathic & objective listening
#3 Nonjudgmental & critical listening
#4 Surface & depth listening
Participate both mentally and physically when someone is encoding the msgs.
Just by listening, no interruption or noises, it show how we really concentrated in the speaker's msgs
Adding our feeling onto the speaker's msgs,
we understand it and empathy the msgs
Emphatic listening is a way to increases the bond of two people as understanding and meaning are joint in the conversation of understand both party.
There are times when you need to measure the meanings and feelings against some objective reality
#3 Nonjudgmental & critical listening
Being opened minded and understanding will not only stop you from being bias on the msgs,
but also effectively help you understand the msgs better.
only after remembering the msgs,
then only critically think and judge the msgs
#4 Surface & depth listening
Don't just understand the surface of the msgs,
but also understand the depth of it
Examples,
GF: do you think should I exercise or go on a diet?
BF: (critically understand what does GF's msgs meant, "does she ask just for opinion or does she want to know what i think of her?" and understand that the answer the given might end his life)
My favourite..
FINISHED ANOTHER CHAPTER ~!!!!
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